Oh dear. I cannot say that this is normal behaviour. You will in the long run lose your partner because he will not put up with this even though he says so now. You need to get to see a good therapist who can help you talk about this and find ways of being intimate with a partner that is acceptable to you. ASSECT is the American Association of Sex Therapists and their website is http://www.aasect.org/default.asp.
Good luck. Mary Clegg |