Introduction
The human body has a tremendous capacity to experience pleasure through its five senses: sight, sound, smell, taste and, above all, touch Heightening these senses to the point of exquisite joy is a playful art which brings a new and deeper level of intimacy between two people in a loving relationship.
What do I need?
Number one on any list is peace and quiet and no interruptions. Get rid of distractions. The room/s that you use should be warm and comfortable. If you are playing with food or oils make sure that you have a large towel handy to sit or lie on. Perhaps you may like fragrance with oil burners and essential oils, candles, or incense sticks. Music too can play an important part so take time to choose something suitable.
What is Erotic Massage?
Erotic Massage is a means through which two people in an intimate relationship touch and stimulate each other. Touch and massage, therefore, are the perfect tools for sexual foreplay.
It is through the stimulation and stroking of the skin that sexually sensitive nerve receptors throughout the body are set alight. Sigmund Freud described the human body as being wholly erotogenic, and it is. Indeed, it is through the skin that the tactile messages of love, tenderness, and desire are received.
By touching, caressing, and fondling the skin, the flame of sexual desire is kindled, while at the same time the emotions and the soul are nourished.
Massage has many benefits: improving circulation, toning the skin and relaxing muscles. Massage is a good way to maintain your "youth". With a partner, massage is a great way to explore and feel close. We all have responses to certain scents. Aromatherapy evokes positive feelings and emotions. Aromatherapy goes hand in hand with the belief that state of mind can also help with physical problems.
Aromatherapy for eroticism and romance
Smell plays an important part in the enhancement of eroticism. Humans, like animals, are said to give off powerful sexual scents called pheromones from their sweat glands when they are in the mood for sexual activity. These odorous chemicals work subliminally and are believed to affect the behavior of others without their even being aware of them. We have started off with something simple to build confidence. You know your partner and can choose either feet or hands
Hand/foot Massage:
- Lubricate your fingers with a small amount of (massage) oil.
Start from your partner’s wrist/ankle, working towards your fingers/toes.
- Follow the contours of each hand/foot with stroking movements with your finger tips lightly.
- Gently, slowly squeeze and stretch the fingers/toes one at a time from the left little finger/toe over to the right little finger/toe with your thumb and first finger.
- Always rub "up" the fingers/toes from the knuckle/joint to the nail.
- Use friction on each of the finger/toe joints both back and front.
- Use your thumb to rub the palm/sole in a circular motion adding a little pressure. As you do this you “cup” lightly of the hand/foot with the rest of your fingers.
- Finish with light stroking movements from the wrist/ankle to the ends of the fingers/toes with your finger tips as before.
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