He walked in the room and your heart skipped a beat. He said hello and your heart jumped to your throat. He asked you to dance and your heart felt warm inside. He kissed your lips passionately and your heart fluttered. He told you he thought you were beautiful and your heart just about burst. He accidentally tripped over his own feet and laughed at himself, and your heart was his to keep.
Have you ever laughed so hard that it hurt or cried your eyes out, then found yourself laughing hysterically? It feels good in both instances. The first because you are simply having fun and the second because you’ve taken in so much sadness, the only thing left do is laugh and start over. Laughter and tears are the two most honest physical forms of expression.
As people get older, they begin to close themselves off. Inhibitions form and pure innocence becomes harder and harder to hold on to. This is why we are often attracted to the people that make us feel free.
When someone is able to bring out the playful, adventurous spirit inside, it makes us feel alive again. Laughter is seductive and it’s extremely infectious. Once you catch a glimpse of a light-hearted spirit that keeps you on your toes, you want to keep that person around.
Fun is being fearless; it’s not watching everything you say -- it’s jumping up and down and not caring what you look like. It’s dancing, it’s kissing, it’s all about being free.
Whether you are just starting to date or you’ve been with your significant other for many years, in order for it to last, a friendship must be formed. A person becomes sexier, the more you enjoy yourself and feel unimpeded in his or her presence.
Characteristics such as fearlessness and danger, playful clumsiness and unadulterated honesty all have one common link: they defy the barriers that we build up as we get older and settle into our adult world. It’s easy to become fascinated and intrigued by someone that ignores these invisible boundaries without even knowing it.
Sharing sexual intimacy with the person you are seeing is the most enjoyable, pleasurable and gratifying form of fun that exists, but only if you are truly able to let yourself be free. This is much easier said than done. Trust, friendship and attraction have got to be present.
Wearing sexy lingerie, listening to romantic music and whispering sweet words to each other are great ways to set the mood, but if the CD starts skipping or your stomach starts growling, or something else non-romantically perfect occurs at that moment, then laugh, because, well, it’s funny! --- and really just enjoy each other, I can guarantee a sizzling sensual session will soon follow.
Why? Because your insecurities will stay at bay and leave your mind free to feeling and being in the moment.
Life is filled with serious tasks and important deadlines; love should not be one of them. Laughter and romance are the two greatest ingredients in every lasting love story. Granted, life is not always roses and sunshine -- at times you’ll need to scream, at times you’ll need to cry, at times you’ll feel insecure and at times you’ll just need room to vent. But after all that’s done, remember to laugh. Laugh hard, play and enjoy each other. Having a sense of humour is the gateway to peace and happiness.
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